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New standards in the new century new role

Source:admin  Time:2014-03-17  Views:

Is going to implement the important task of the new curriculum is changing the student's study way, for the students to build up an independent, experience, inquiry learning platform, cooperation and communication. Change the way of learning to parent role transformation. Facing the new situation, parents must first change roles, becomes the child's study participants, helper, guide and facilitator; Build in the warm family atmosphere.
One, the participants
New education form requirements: parents should be jointly build study participants. As a parent, must first learn to respect, respect the child's interests, respect their personality, respect the child's personality, respect children's choice of judgment. Respect means must keep children as their own friends, establish a good parent-child relationship; Learn to share, to share the human in one thousand to create wealth, share their experience of life and values. Share, means that the parents out of self-centered, into the children's world, is equal to, rather than a commanding alms. The new course standard requires fundamentally change the students' learning mode, made the learning of the students from passive into into active learning. As a participant, the role of the parents are much more than "homework" in the past. Such as, in order to develop students' innovative spirit, and improve students' comprehensive quality, the ministry of education specifies the middle school students' extracurricular specifically literary classics reading, including "childhood", "journey to the west", 12 and 14 foreign novels the Chinese classics. Students read of these classics cannot leave the arrangement of the parents in a planned way. Parents' participation, is an essential part of student learning task. Parents of reasonable participation can not only improve the students' interest in learning, and can improve the power in the eyes of children, parents harmonious relationship between family members.
Second, the helper
The new curriculum reform will make the children of course small, thinning of the textbooks, and real attention to each child's all-round and lifelong development, encouraging students to diversified development, personality development. Educational reform will let the child has the right to choose to suit their own special skill examination. So parents in the process of the growth of children, to help a child understand what is the most suitable for yourself, help children to find their own position. At this stage the students under overload pressure and psychological pressure, they need to help parents meticulous. And some parents, to help understand to give the child to find the teacher make up a missed lesson, to do exercises... In fact, children need maybe just enough rest. Jin in grade three this year, the other students are busy to catch up with all kinds of overtime hours, her parents according to the actual situation of her to help her develop a plan of study is: the refusal of the various competitions are not suitable for my class learning, strengthen the guidance of science, increase of sleep on Sunday, improve the efficiency of classes and homework, with the best state of body and mind into examination review. Several stages of the test, the achievement of jin increasingly rising, firmly occupy the top grade and invigoration, study in high spirits. The child parents' help, they found the most for their children for her learning strategies.
Third, guide
Students to become the master of learning, teachers and parents to cooperation and guide the children to question, explore, and found that guide their children, rich individual character to learn actively, and lead them out of textbooks, into the society, guides them to learn to choose, let more children to play, let them go.
12 xiao Yang has always been a "9", the teacher's evaluation is very high, he feel very good, parents also very satisfied, in children's study has taken a rest assured. Unexpectedly at the end of the semester, the teacher tell the parents, there are several zhang xiao Yang during the final review math notes didn't do. Xiao Yang parents shocked, very angry. After they calmed down, they decided to ask the child. Child is very simply, we give three reasons: first, the subject will do, don't want to do; Second, do not do these subjects the examination can test good; Third, parents at home anyway, to check the number of questions and no less. Children seem to reason. Parents didn't refute but also ask him the three questions: first, the basic duty of student is? Second, the "9", what is the class cadre role models? Third, you really have reached don't have to do your homework? Son want to want to say to parents: "I put the homework to fill up! But I still want to ask the teacher can change other homework later." Parents let him to consult the teacher solve on their own. In my parents' attention, under the guidance, xiao Yang's physical and mental health, comprehensive development.
Four, facilitator
Another change is that of the new curriculum reform on students' evaluation, it has changed the previous evaluation as a means of elimination and selection of the test. Establish can inspire students' learning interest and the development of the autonomous learning ability evaluation system, grade evaluation, pluralistic evaluation will be included in the evaluation standard of the children. In daily life, so parents should pay attention to promote children's study enthusiasm, keep learning zeal; Promote children to develop their ability to practice and self-reflection; Promote the children cultivate self-discipline ability, cultivate the spirit of cooperation, and on the basis of the formation of the students learn from each other between promoting situation.
Now some children are selfish, especially some achievements prominent children, always want to be worse than himself, than common progress, so reluctant to share information, reluctance to cooperate with classmates, jealous of students get good grades... In the long run, the child's mind will become more and more narrow, and learning potential will not give full play to the weak classmates, even lead to the generation of weariness. At this point, the parents is quite important role in promoting, promoting children form the ability to self practice and self reflection; Promote the children cultivate the spirit of cooperation, let the children learn to study together with classmates, make progress together.
Five, the ambience
A new era of education require parents to build a good family atmosphere, let the children grow in vibrant, warm and pleasant family, make the child to feel affection, feel warm at any time. Research shows that when the child is in a state of relaxed and happy, will strengthen memory, lenovo will be rich, it will greatly improve the learning efficiency, learning potential of play. Parents can let children learn to treat themselves correctly and evaluate themselves correctly, make the child produces the sense of responsibility and mission is more important than parents themselves are learned.
I'm in class a few years ago once took over a second day, the first day of the report, didn't see the students face, pour a parents find schools, tell me how children not obedient, don't want to stay at home, go toward outside shot all day. A few days later asked why child, the child is also full of complaints: "I can see outside schoolmate, teacher's smiling face, at home, I can see only a long face, angry face. I go home?" Yes, if be, of the children to escape the parents shouldn't self-reflection?
Education is an educator and educatee has become more perfect career. Without the active development of parents, it is difficult to have the active development of students; For the success of the change of the role of parents, it is not easy to keep up with the pace of The Times. The new curriculum need new teachers, new parents, only in this way, can students develop a comprehensive and high quality.