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Three eight avoid parents godson

Source:admin  Time:2014-03-17  Views:

Students of the college entrance examination scores and the influence of the external environment. And the biggest external factors to influence students than family environment. Parents should act as a troubleshooter for students in senior year, do a good job in the role of the logistics, but if the guidance error, also could have the opposite effect.
When the play their part, parents should pay attention to the eight aspects.
One avoid is nervous. Enter the third year, parents on show "test anxiety", the students will not only direct infection, but also make the parents lost his cool. So parents must first ensure the stability of the emotional, pay attention to the use of children's positive and optimistic to dilute their own heart nervous.
2 avoid chatter endlessly. Do not hang the college entrance examination in the mouth all day and don't use "to struggle for the parents" and other words to stimulate children. Excessive told only to adverse impact on children's physical and mental, parents don't too much interference in children's behavior, the review to give them a more relaxed environment.
Three don't care too much. Too much attention to more pressure on children, concern for students mental and physical care should be moderate.
4 avoid expect too much. To understand the child's actual level, not to too high expectations of their children. Parents to do the child to develop the university entrance exam objectives guides.
5 avoid blind competition. Don't say to the children of other students learn how to well how hard words, and this will increase the child's rebellious attitude, and the longitudinal comparison, more efforts to discover the child the progress of every moment, at the same time, help children to analysis their advantages and defects, foster strengths and circumvent weaknesses, in order to achieve the effect of morale.
6 avoid contrast is too big. Family environment shoulds not be too great or the change of atmosphere, food and clothing live line intact, can let the child properly watch TV, listen to music or go shopping.
Seven avoid is coerced. Don't use some reward to arouse the enthusiasm of a child, this not only cannot have incentive effect, it can lead to psychological imbalance.
Eight avoid tutor. Don't poured please teacher tutor, separate, not only diverted the children free time of digestive review content, and to explore.
For middle school students, which is undoubtedly the most important learning stage. In just one year, not only optimize the thinking, development ability, to systematic knowledge, still faces fierce competition, under great psychological pressure, so one of them said: "three is a paradise of suffering". After suffering can reach heaven, however, has a psychological adjustment and review the strategy problem. On how to improve the efficiency of three review, I give you some advice.